For the last 2 months, I haven’t known what I wanted to hear from people or what I wanted people to do to help me. It’s a frustrating situation in which to be. So, for everyone that has been looking for what they could do or say to make me feel better about our situation and this miscarriage, just know that I can’t even tell you what that is. As our therapist said to us, pain isn’t logical.
For those that are reaching out and trying, it helps. I can’t thank you enough. Snail mail, phone calls, texts, and emails that are full of words of encouragement are appreciated more than I can say.
On a similar note, I received this blog entry in my email this morning from Chelsea at Starbucks, Peace, and the Pursuit of a Baby. I thought it was an excellent representation of things I would like to say.
Here is a link to copy & paste in case the one above doesn’t work: https://www.fertilityauthority.com/blog/chelsea-ritchie/2015/2/11/5-things-you-wish-you-could-tell-your-fertile-friends
Thank you for continuing to love me even when it was hard to know how.